Helping women over 40 save their marriage.
Does any of this sound familiar?
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You’re tired of being the only one trying.
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You feel alone, even when he's sitting right next to you.​​
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You feel more like roommates than lovers.
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You've tried talking to him, but it only seems to make things worse.
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Some days, you honestly don't know if it's even worth trying anymore.
You shouldn’t have to live like roommates with the person you married. You deserve connection, warmth, and a husband who actually wants to be close to you again - and it starts with small shifts that change everything.
Imagine having a marriage that allows you to...
Feel calm and confident again, instead of second-guessing every word or action.
​Stop trying to fix him and start focusing on what you can actually control.
Know how to communicate in a way that creates connection instead of conflict.
Start seeing your husband respond differently—because you’re showing up differently.
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What People are Saying
"Jil makes me think about things from another point of view and gives analogies that open my eyes to things I would have never thought of. She makes me feel like I’m not a bad person for thinking or feeling the way I do, and she validates me. I feel so good after I have talked to her".
- Becky G.
"Life can get messy. Working with Jil helped me sort through my own mess so that we could work together on my relationships with others. Having Jil as a guide, I had the support, encouragement, and plans needed to make positive changes in my relationships. And those changes have had lasting results".
- Jen E.
Meet Jil
I’m Jil Hunsberger, Marriage Coach and founder of Great Love Coaching. I help women over 40 save their marriages — even without their husbands’ help.
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Years ago, I felt disconnected and unseen in my own marriage. I did what most women do: I read every book, tried every tip, and begged my husband to meet me halfway. None of it worked.
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So I stopped trying to fix him and focused on changing how I was showing up. That shift completely changed our marriage — and my life.
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Now I teach other women how to do the same. Through a simple, practical approach, I help them take back their power, shift the dynamic, and create the kind of connection they’ve been craving.
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If you’re tired of living this way, and you don’t know what else to do, you’re in the right place.
Quick note: I don’t use fear-based or manipulative marketing. I believe people deserve clear information, honest expectations, and the space to decide what’s right for them. To learn more about how I do business, click here.
My Mission
My mission is to help women stop exhausting themselves trying to control their marriages and start creating real connection instead. I work with women who are willing to take responsibility for their side of the relationship, build emotional strength, and show up differently—whether their marriage changes, or they do.